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Bouquet Inspiration

by admin on March 31, 2011, under Wedding Flowers

My godmother, Michaele Thunen, is one of the most talented people I know, especially when it comes to flowers, and my bridal bouquet was her wedding gift to me. Though she wasn’t technically a “vendor,” she’s a perfect example of what happens when you hire wedding professionals that you trust to take your initial inspiration and direction, and then use their discretion and talent to create something wonderful.

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bottom {L: warm white rose bouquet} {R: gardenia bouquet}

These are some of the photos I shared with Michaele – I knew the general shape that I liked, and that I wanted all white flowers with some greenery. I mentioned to her how much I love lily-of-the-valley, gardenias, and vines. Michaele and I discussed that paperwhites seemed like they would be a good seasonal addition, and dusty miller was a nice way to incorporate the gray that was part of our wedding’s color palette. Also, any gifts I’ve ever received from Michaele are always tied with the most beautiful ribbon, so I knew she would pick something beautiful to embellish my bouquet.


bouquets by Ariella Chezar

Ariella Chezar has been a huge inspiration for me since long before I started my blog, so of course I drew inspiration from her flowers for my own wedding. Though I knew peonies, garden roses and clematis (some of my favorite floweres!) would be unavailable for our wedding in December, and though pink and peach weren’t the right colors, these two pieces really conveyed the overall feel and texture that I wanted for my bouquet.


photo by Elizabeth Messina

Somehow, Michaele brought together all of the different pieces that I loved, and created my dream bouquet – I absolutely fell in love with it. She even found peonies in December! My bouquet included peonies, paperwhites, gardenias, lily-of-the-valley, dusty miller, and passion vine, and was all tied up with two types of beautiful silver ribbon from Britex. I absolutely trusted that Michaele would make something gorgeous, so after I’d shared my inspiration with her, I left it up to her how to bring it all together. And I’m so glad I did, because not only was the result absolutely perfect, it was also a delightful surprise on my wedding day.



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New Jersey Wedding at The Inn at Fernbrook Farms

by admin on March 30, 2011, under Wedding Day's

Ok folks, this darling DIY farm wedding is just the perfect way to end our Wedding Wednesday pretty parade. It’s super adorable, personal and crafty all wrapped up in one sweet as can be wedding. Held at the Inn at Fernbrook Farms, all the fabulous images from Di Bezi Photography makes me wish I pulled an invite to this fun fete! For even more be sure to check out the full gallery!

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From the Bride… My husband and I met almost eight years ago in Mallorca, Spain of all places.  That’s right, two Jersey folks ventured out to Spain one summer (I as a nanny and Keith as a grad student studying abroad), and seven years later we were married at The Inn at Fernbrook Farms in Chesterfield, New Jersey.  I always knew that I wanted an outdoor wedding, so after a long and grueling search across the states of NJ and PA, we ended up fifteen minutes from our house on a beautiful farm that has been family run since the 1800′s.

My vision for our July 24th wedding was “modern whimsy and burlap with a touch of antique.”  From the start, I knew I would be embarking on many DIY projects since I had dreamed about this day for so long and wanted it to feel like OUR event and not a cookie cutter wedding.  Overall, it turned out to be a relaxed and personal event that our friends and family are still talking about!  Everyone pitched in to help bring all the elements together which, looking back, is a big reason why everything felt so right.  I was out there along with my bridesmaids setting up the tables just hours before the wedding.

We constructed paper fans for the ceremony with tags that read, “Thanks for being at our one day that says we don’t want to spend another without being man and wife.”  Little did we know how important those fans would be in keeping our guests alive on a 105 degree day!  The chuppah was constructed by Keith and my father the week before the wedding.  We wanted it to be very natural and simple, and constructed the frame out of birch poles with a burlap canopy top.  My father’s wife sewed ALL of our dinner napkins from fabric I collected, each table with their own pattern.  I crafted their corresponding place cards with a scrap of their napkin fabric that I pegged to burlapped boards. We made the burlap table runners, table numbers, and collected hurricane lanterns for the dinner tables. My father’s wife also created our ring pillow which was made out of pieces of material that once belonged to each of our four grandmothers, all of whom have passed.  It was such a nice way to honor and include them in our ceremony.

The flowers were a group effort, led by a family friend.  I wanted the flowers to be simple and classic. I created a loop out of natural twine so that the flower-filled mason jars could hang over the aisle chairs. They came out so beautifully! We also had wreaths hanging at the front entrance and small mason jars on the cocktail tables.  The bridesmaid hyrdrangea bouquets were wrapped in burlap and tied with twine.

The hit of the night was definitely the DIY photo booth that I created using a burlap backdrop and our monogram from Anthropologie.  I bought props from an Etsy vendor and left disposable cameras on a table and let people go at it.  All five cameras were filled with such inventive and fun pictures!

Other DIY touches included chalkboard menu boards, drink stirrers with our monogram, a guest book that contained paper and envelopes for guests to tuck notes into, burlap pocket squares for the groomsmen, handmade wooden signs pointing guests to the ceremony, reception, and cocktail hour and hurricane lanterns filled with floating candles that lined the walkways. We also made dozens upon dozens of homemade cookies that I placed in collected apothecary jars that guests could fill up in cellophane bags on their way out.

Wedding Venue: The Inn at Fernbrook Farms / Wedding Photographer: Di Bezi Photography / Wedding Dress: Ramona Keveza / Men’s Suits: Express / Caterer: Main Street Catering / Bridesmaid Dresses: J. Crew / Band: The Cherubs / Ring Bearer Ties: Etsy / Flowers: Friend of the Bride

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Building a Combination Wedding & Honeymoon Album

by admin on March 29, 2011, under Wedding Ideas & Advice

I’m popping in again because I’m so excited to share this with you…

Our wedding album has arrived (and only 18 months after the wedding!). A really long time ago, I blogged about how in love we were with the $1000 (or +) albums offered through our photographer. They were amazing. Seriously amazing.

But after the wedding was over and we were thinking about albums (well, mostly I was thinking about albums…), I decided that an album like that probably wasn’t right for us. My reasoning? I wanted to include our wedding, our cake cutting (which was in our home and had no pro photographer), our family/friends picnic reception (which was on a different day and also had no pro photographer), and our honeymoon (which of course had no pro photog tagging along!). In addition, I’ve also cropped, retouched, and otherwise edited a lot of the professional wedding photos after receiving them from the photographer. Don’t get me wrong: Shawna and Kory did an excellent job editing the photos. But I have personal preferences (can we call them “hang ups?”) when it come to pictures of me, so I put in a bit of time making the photos look exactly how I wanted them.

While our photographer was really wonderful to work with, easygoing and just an all around great person, I wasn’t sure how keen she’d be on having more than half of the photos in album she’d create being someone else’s work (mostly mine and Mr. MJ’s). Also, I wanted full—and I mean full—creative control of the layouts. If I wanted to make the album I envisioned happen–with the fancy pantsy albums our photographer had to offer—I bet she and I could have worked something out. But I didn’t want to be a pest.

I also decided not to pursue it because our priorities don’t dictate spending that much on an album. I could see doing it if we had lots of people coming over, looking through our album on a regular basis, and if it was something we planned to display centrally in our home. It isn’t. It’s going to go on a shelf in my barrister bookcase with all of the other picture albums, and will probably only be brought out on rare occasions (if someone asks, or if we decide to take a walk down memory lane that doesn’t involve our online photo albums). As much as we loved those luxurious albums our photographer had to offer, we couldn’t justify the expenditure for something that would be admired so rarely.

So it was decided that I’d make an album and order it online. I have experience with Shutterfly photo books (I made some for our parents and grandparents as gifts for Christmas after our wedding), but I didn’t want to go that route this time. I had bought one for us at the same time, and even though it was okay, I really wanted something snazzier (and inclusive of our honeymoon photos) for our own keepsake.

My main issue with Shutterfly, by the way, was quality control. I don’t think a human actually looks at the album before it’s sent out. The words didn’t align properly on the binder, and some of the coloring was a little funky. Also, it didn’t have lay-flat pages. (Shutterfly doesn’t claim to have this feature, so I did not expect those books to have it. But I later decided I really wanted that feature for our album!!) I would certainly order a Shutterfly album again in the future, but not for something as important as a wedding keepsake.

I set out on a search for the best online wedding album. And I found the best resource ever. You want detailed album reviews? Check out this Photo Book Round Up from Digital Home Thoughts.

I ultimately chose AdoramaPix for our album. I picked it because I could fully customize the layout, it had the lay flat pages, and it offered photo-wrap covers. I knew I could fit our album into 50 pages, so that limit wasn’t an issue. And AdoramaPix is regularly reviewed as one of the best consumer printing resources. Great color, great clarity, just excellent work.

My second choice was MyPublisher (although I had been tied to having a photo wrap cover, I really liked their linen cover choices!). The only reason I didn’t go with MyPublisher was that they didn’t have size of book I liked. The 9 x 12 book (landscape) seemed too small (height wise); the 12×15 seemed too big. (I knew it’d be too big for our shelf; plus since many of our photos did not come out of a truly professional camera (designed for large format), I was worried I couldn’t do any full spreads of honeymoon photos. (We do have a dSLR camera, but not all cameras are created equal. Most professional photographers shoot with very high quality gear; our older consumer level camera can’t compete with that.) I might choose MyPublisher in the future for another project though! I did really like their cover options, among other features.

With the company decided on, I made the AdoramaPix book (back in November 2010). I fully customized every layout, starting from blank on each page. It was a lot of grueling work to line everything up, even with the help of their alignment tools. It took me a very long time to make this album. I must say though: waiting a while to make your wedding album is the best idea ever. Really: when you look back at your wedding pictures after time has passed, you will find new things you like about certain ones. You’ll notice photos now that you had previously skipped over in a giddy blur. You might realize that some of the photos you loved at first, really aren’t your favorites at all. Our new album contains photos the parent albums don’t have. Photos most people (aside from our photographers of course!) have never seen before. And that’s because I just didn’t see them the same way back in 2009. When I looked again a year later, I fell in love with a bunch of new ones.

Anyway, I made the album in November, saved it, and waited. Adorama photo books aren’t cheap, and I wanted a sale to pop up. Silly me made my album just weeks after they had a sweet 20% off sale on all books. Dang. December passed. Then January. Then most of February before finally, I saw an announcement from them on Facebook: photo books discounted! Woohoo! Between the discount and a $10 credit I ’earned’ for becoming a new account member, I got my 12×12 flush mount 50 page photo book–normally $160–for $93.

Enough blabber! Here’s the book!

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(Cover image by Shawna Noel Photography)

The cover is done in a pearly finish. It’s almost metallic looking. Very cool. I put our names and wedding date on the front; on the back I listed the “where and whens” of the events that are contained in the album. (Ignore my smeary fingerprints on the back–whoops. Me and my grubby little hands.)

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(’Wedding’ image by Shawna Noel Photography; ’Reception’ image by family member; ’Honeymoon’ image by Mr. MJ.)

Here comes my *only* complaint about the quality of the book. Check this out.

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(Image in this spread by Shawna Noel Photography)

That’s the inside of the front cover. The pages that are mounted to the front and the back covers count as 2 of the 50 allotted pages. And they’re kind of screwy. It’s not horrible, but it isn’t terribly professional either. You can see the lumpiness of the cover-wrap image–it shows through the front and back pages. The way the front page is attached is what irked me most:

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(Image in this spread by Shawna Noel Photography)

It is too tightly glued, I think. If you open the book all the way, it stretches and this page peels up (on the top and the bottom–you are seeing the bottom in the picture). That’s really not cool. I don’t think it’s worth returning the book over, but it’s something to note. I had seen a few other people write reviews about minor issues with binding, so I was half-expecting this kind of thing anyway. Besides, this was a $100 book, not a $1000 book, right? (But still, even Shutterfly papers the front and back covers, starting your book on a page that isn’t glued to the binding…)

Oh, and some of my pictures were printed a little bit duller than I think they should be.

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Oddly, this only happened with the photos we took. (The pro photos printed perfectly.) I should note that I turned OFF their color-correction because I generally like my own coloring better. The dullness isn’t noticeable to anyone except me, and it’s very slight, so I decided not to care too much. Maybe if I’d agreed to their color correction, it wouldn’t have happened…who knows. But I made a mental note: bump saturation on future AdoramaPix orders. (I stored that one right next to my mental note about bumping brightness by 15% on anything I print from Shutterfly….).

Oh, and in case you’re wondering: I got that image of our plane tickets into the book by scanning them at a very high resolution on our color scanner as a JPG image. Then, I just gave them a black background and ended up with what looked like a photo of two plane tickets on a black background!

The pages are not super duper thick (like a true pro album). But they’re thick enough I think.

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I’d say they’re thicker than cardstock, but not a lot thicker. Here are the pages laying flat.

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(Images in this spread by Shawna Noel Photography)

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(Rings image by me; Bouquet image by Shawna Noel Photography.)

And here’s a peek at some of the layouts I created for the photos we took on our honeymoon. (All of the photos in the spreads below were taken by me or Mr. Mary Jane.)

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Here’s the back page. (The back page binding/gluing actually came out much better than the front page, but you can still see the ’ridge’ where the cover is folded under the back page and glued.)

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All in all, I love our album!! It’s a great memorial to our wedding, reception and honeymoon. The price was affordable and the overall quality is very good (especially for the price)! In the words of eBay buyers: A++, would order again. My only advice? Next time, I’d think of it as a 48 page album and simply put some sort of pattern on the first and last page. I really wouldn’t care about the lumpy binding if it was a blank or otherwise unadorned page that was affected.

Mr. MJ and I both agreed that it was really fun to page through the album after it arrived. Ah, memories! Did you, or do you plan to make your own album?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.


Hello From Canada!

by admin on March 27, 2011, under Wedding Fayre

I just wanted to pop in to say that the Taffy recaps will be making a comeback soon! This past year has been very crazy for us, as we only saw each other on the weekends due to my US / Canadian commute! Well, before the recaps continue, I wanted to share some exciting news with you: we decided to take the plunge and move to Canada!

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image via Mah-Shop

Yes, after 13 months of commuting, we are living under the same roof all week long! :)

Before the move, the commute was taking up too much time to work on the recaps. Since we decided to move in November, we have been up to our ears beginning the immigration process, and were busy moving our household here and looking for places in Canada.

All of our household items came to our new place at the end of November, and Mr. Taffy arrived full time mid January. It is SO wonderful to see him every day! We have picked up our newlywed/nesting phase where we left off in December 2009, and have had a great time cooking, baking and relaxing together. So much so that we haven’t completely unpacked yet. ;)

It has been great to use all of my baking items again! (we didn’t cook or bake much on weekends together while I was commuting).

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Yum!!!

I hope you all will take a look once the recaps get restarted…it feels great to be blogging again. :)

Lots of love,

Mrs. Taffy


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.


Seven Things to Know About Getting Married in Italy

by admin on March 26, 2011, under Miscellaneous

Having a wedding in Italy is great. The food is simply amazing. (Sorry, but you just can’t get food as good as Italian food in Italy.) The atmosphere is jovial. The scenery is wonderful. The history and culture surrounding you are enriching.

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Image via Destination-Weddings-Abroad

BUT…it’s a nightmare if you’re as hooked on American weddings as I am.

If you are currently planning a wedding in Italy or are thinking about it, here is all you need to know:

1. If you want your marriage to be legal, your ceremony options are limited.

Forget about ceremonies in forests, in front of a tree, or even in your parents’ backyard. Forget about choosing a friend to be your officiant. In Italy you can legally only get married in a Catholic church or in a building that is property of the town hall. Only a priest or a town hall official can marry you.

Many town halls are getting smarter now and are offering beautiful locations for civil marriages (at a pretty steep price if you’re not a resident), but still the options are limited.

2. Communication problems

I was really surprised at how many vendors could not speak English—especially considering that our wedding location is a very popular tourist destination. I was also really surprised at how bad (or nonexistent) the internet sites of these vendors were. Be prepared for this and, if you don’t speak Italian, it might be a good idea to contact a wedding planner.

3. Different traditions

In Italy there is no rehearsal dinner or bridal shower.

There is also no bridal party, so don’t be confused if the Italian girl you asked to be your bridesmaid gets offended if you ask her to wear the same dress someone else is wearing.

Guests often play practical jokes on the newlywed couple. It’s common to cut the groom’s tie during the reception and sell the pieces or to “break into” the newlyweds’ house, so it might happen that once home you’ll find a door stuck shut or itching powder in your bed!

It’s also customary to give guests a bomboniera (a favor), which usually consists of a decor item containing five confetti (sugared almonds) wrapped in lace. The almonds symbolize health, wealth, fertility, happiness, and long life.

It’s also still widely popular to throw rice at the newlywed couple after the ceremony. I’d never heard of other alternatives until I started reading wedding blogs!

4. Everyone is invited.

In Italy all your family, friends, and acquaintances get invited to your wedding. The trick is that everyone gets invited to the ceremony, but only your nearest and dearest also get invited to the reception! This is why the invitations are always comprised of two cards, one for the ceremony and one for the reception.

5. DIY is pretty much unheard of.

Most women in Italy can cook, sew, and knit. (I can only cook.) But all this DIY goodness that seems to be so popular and widespread in the States is not common at all in Italy! So even if you want to prepare tons of DIY projects, it will be extremely challenging to find all the materials you need. You should either get them shipped from the States or sit back, relax, and try to free yourself from the pressure to DIY everything,,,

6. Dinner expectations

If you are having a wedding in Italy with Italian guests, I would advise you to go for a seated lunch/dinner. This is the most common option, and I’ve never heard of anyone having a buffet for a wedding meal: it’s simply not done. The good thing is that since this is what is expected, no restaurants will charge you more for it!

Also, while it’s very easy to have your reception in a restaurant or rent a villa and get catering, it’s not as easy to find original wedding locations such as museums, barns, art galleries, zoos, outdoor areas…I’m not saying it’s impossible, it’s just not common and thus it will require some extra effort.

7. Unless you ship it over or find American vendors, you can forget about:

  • Mini-hamburger appetizers: le sigh…
  • Themed food stations with toppings: I would LOVE to have a mac-and-cheese station with all the different toppings.
  • Chiavari chairs: Chair covers are still the most common option.
  • Letterpress: not common
  • Great videography: At least I have not yet found a videographer who could be compared to the American ones I’ve seen—if you have, please share!!
  • Photo booth rental: You’ll have to make your own!
  • Choosing colored linen/napkins/table runners: You might have the choice between one or two options, but I haven’t (yet) found a linen rental company.
  • Dessert buffets with cupcakes, macarons, donuts, or ice cream bars: These are not very easy to come by. This is because these sweets are not part of the traditional Italian patisserie, so not all pastry shops will provide them—and there’s a high probability that the patisserie your restaurant collaborates with does not.
  • Vintage furniture rental: Again, I’m not saying it’s impossible, just that it’s not common or easy to find. Most rental companies are targeted for corporations, so they mostly have furniture that would either be perfect for a fair or for a chic, modern lounge event. It was also very difficult to find any company that would rent decor items: it’s much easier to find a florist or venue that already has an extensive collection of the decor items you like.

Luckily it’s not all bad—and none of the above points has any influence at all on the celebration of your love on your wedding day!

Do you think you’d like planning a wedding in Italy?

What are the challenges you encountered with your wedding location?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.


A Perfect Pair?

by admin on March 25, 2011, under Wedding Wear

I thought once my dress came in, I’d have my jewelry figured out. I mean, the wedding is in four months. That’s practically four weeks in wedding-land. But I haven’t been slackin’—I’ve tried, honest!

Before the dress arrived, I purchased some J. Crew pieces. When we visited Priscilla of Boston to pick up the girls’ dresses and I slipped on Wallis with the J. Crew earrings and bracelet, but the metal finish and rectangle shape didn’t go.

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Ooops. Guess I’ll just have to find new pieces! But I wasn’t sure where to look for inspiration… until I saw a pair of earrings from my own jewelry box a little differently. Of course, they were too casual but why not look to the rest of my collection for inspiration.

My taste in jewelry trends from bold baubles, like multi-strand pearls the size of gum balls…

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and statement cuffs…

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to colored stones…

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and assorted custom pieces.

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Since my gown features dimensional details over every inch, I’m keeping the rest of my look as clean as possible by focusing on one statement piece. No necklace. No bracelet. Just earrings.

Studs are not enough of a statement. Pearls are too demure. Drop earrings will do nicely. Something like these, perhaps?

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Etsy – champagne briolette with pearls

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wedzu – lucite teardrop

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But before I could order any of these, I found these lovelies and will try them on with my gown this weekend. Here’s to hoping they work!

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Does your wedding jewelry reflect your “everyday” style? Did you have trouble finding wedding jewelry?


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All Things Girly Inspiration Board

by admin on March 23, 2011, under Wedding Ideas & Advice

Vanessa Paradis for Chanel Rouge Coco

The pastels of spring have arrived and as a soft sweep of sunlight bathes all in a heavenly glow, somewhere in the distance you hear drifting through the air the faint notes of ‘La Vie en Rose.’  Douse yourself in scents of floral, wrap yourself in shades of coral and dance, dance, dance the days and nights away.  It’s time for all things girly!

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This article was originally posted onBridezilla.


Ring in the Spring

by admin on March 21, 2011, under Wedding Rings

Whew. It’s officially spring, you guys, and so far, spring is CRAZY for the Panthers.

We’re moving into our new place on Saturday, so we spent this past weekend painting a few rooms in the new house. I love color, so I’m excited about it, but man, was it a lot of work. All that work resulted in my hands looking like this the night before we went shopping for wedding bands:

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YIKES! I don’t normally have totally dainty hands, but they do NOT usually look like five purple sausages sticking out of a smushed tomato.

Mr. Panther’s hands were all jacked up, too, but we had to get the ring shopping over with.

I was fairly sure that my band would need to be custom-ordered, and I really wanted to make sure it was done in time for the wedding. So, despite our hideous hands, we took on the ring shopping trip Monday morning.

Once again, we visited our friends at Eternal Jewels in AmericasMart, the wholesale fine jewelry market where we bought my engagement ring. I already knew what I wanted: a diamond band just like my engagement ring’s band, but in rose gold. What I didn’t know was how we’d make it fit next to my ring. See, my center stone setting is very low. The whole thing sits completely flat on my finger. See?

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I wanted it that way so that I would be less likely to get it caught on things, but it made the wedding band selection process tricky. I assumed I had two options. The first would be a curved band, like this:

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Please note: That is NOT MY HAND. It’s a picture I found on the internet. As horrible as my hands looked after two days of painting, they did not miraculously age 40 years.

I don’t really like the look of those, though. Plus, I knew I’d need a custom one made for the exact shape of my ring—I don’t care for the way they look when they don’t sit completely flush.

So, I thought my other option would be to get a regular diamond band and cut a hole in it for my engagement ring to fit in, then solder the bands together. I expected this to be complicated, though. We’d have to do the soldering after our honeymoon, and a ring with a hole in it would look very strange when Mr. Panther put it on my finger during the ceremony.

When we got to the jewelers, I was thrilled to find out that they had another solution. They explained that they would make a cut out in my engagement ring so that the intact wedding band would just slide under it. I’ll lose some of the pretty detailing in the side, but I’ll be able to wear my wedding band by itself if I want to.

I was planning on just getting one band, but the jewelers encouraged me to try two. Surprise, surprise, right? I remembered how gorgeous Miss Hippo’s double bands looked around her cushion-shaped halo setting, so I gave it a go. And like Miss Hippo, I was reluctant at first to get two bands, but was very easily convinced.

The milgrain edging matches my engagement ring, but the bands will be rose gold. As I may have mentioned, rose gold makes me weak in the knees.

They only had white gold in the store, and they don’t fit right next to my ring yet because I don’t have the cut-outs, but you get the idea:

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Closer up:

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If you want to see what white gold and rose gold look like next to each other, you should check out Mrs. Trail Mix’s set. So frigging pretty!

I can also just wear one band if I ever want to be less blingy, though I don’t know why that would ever be the case. I mean, come on—this is me we’re talking about. I love the bling.

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So, it was settled—I’d get two bands and adjustments made to my e-ring. Easy! Next up—Mr. Panther’s wedding band.

Mr. Panther hadn’t done much online shopping like I did. He was pretty sure that he just wanted a simple, flat, white gold band—maybe with brushed metal instead of shiny. He didn’t think he wanted any beveled edges, borders or two-tone elements, but he wasn’t really sure. At one point, I asked him if he had any interest in getting rose gold to match my bands. He thought that rose gold was too girly. I informed him that rose gold is actually an alloy of gold and copper, and copper is totally a manly metal, but he wasn’t convinced, so I left it alone.

At the jeweler, Mr. Panther tried on a few flat, plain bands. They were fine, but … so boring! I knew that Mr. Panther wanted something simple, so I tried to keep my opinion to myself, but I just couldn’t resist asking him if he wanted something a little more special. I was happy to spend extra for something that didn’t look like it could have been purchased at a gas station, ya know? So, Mr. Panther tried a couple fancier options. Finally, he put on a yellow gold brushed band with white gold milgrain edging. It was simple, but special. The jeweler mentioned that it might be nice if he got white gold with rose gold edging, and he actually liked that idea! Yes!

At this point, I asked Mr. Panther to hold his hand still so I could take a picture, and the woman helping us said that pictures weren’t allowed. Whoops. Good thing she didn’t notice when I was taking pictures of mine! What did we do before cell phone cameras?

So, since I don’t have photos, you ladies will have to use your imagination. It’s like this:

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… Except the white gold in the center is brushed, and the milgrain and inside of the band will be rose gold.

Two-tone bands with rose gold and white gold look like this:

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I can’t wait to see our bands when they come in! It should be around six to eight weeks, so we’ll get them in May some time.

How did you ladies pick your wedding bands? Did you go with one or two?


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Laura Hooper ~ Wedding Invitations & Calligraphy

by admin on March 17, 2011, under Wedding Stationery

Abby featured the lovely Laura Hooper’s engagement party plus her sister’s equally awesome rehearsal dinner yesterday on Style Me Pretty … and as Abby said, we honestly can’t rave enough about Laura! Her calligraphy may be where it all started, but my-oh-my-goodness … the places she’s gone!

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Our sincere congrats to Laura on her own upcoming nups! We couldn’t be happier for you!!

As you’ll read on her website, Laura Hooper Calligraphy is a green wedding company creating THE most fabulous invitations, save-the-dates, custom maps … you name it … couture creations for “the most discerning brides”!

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photography courtesy of Steve Steinhardt

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You can see all these delightful examples of Laura’s work plus so many more in the SMP gallery {here}! Do take a look ~ we know you’ll fall in love all over again!

Laura’s Engagement Party and her sister’s Rehearsal Dinner

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Nashville Rooftop Wedding by Kate Murphy Photography

by admin on March 16, 2011, under Wedding Day's

It’s Wednesday morning which means we have a FULL day of pretty weddings up our sleeves – everything from rooftop soirees to backyard shindigs and maybe even a ranch wedding or two. There’s nothing like a mid-week pretty fest to get the blood pumping. And if the sneak peak of images makes your heart pitter-patter, just click on the gallery to see the whole wedding and a lot more pitter-pattering.

We are going to start things off in Tennessee and to say we have a major crush on this rooftop wedding is a total understatement. The second you throw a skyline view and dining alfresco into the mix, everything just seems a bit more fabulous. Kate Murphy was the genius behind the lens and captured many a great moment of this Nashville beauty. Crushing too? You can find the FULL wedding in the gallery.

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From the Bride… As soon as my now husband proposed, I knew I wanted to have our wedding in my hometown of Nashville, TN, despite the fact that we were living in New York City at the time. I wanted to show all of our Yankee friends the charm and musical soul of Nashville. The only other thing I knew for sure was that I wanted to walk down the aisle to Phoenix’s “Love Like a Sunset Part II.” So I based the rest of the wedding around those two factors! I chose The Aerial on Broadway because it seemed perfectly “us.” It’s a rooftop modern urban venue (nod to NYC and our East Village lifestyle) with gorgeous views of Broadway and most of downtown Nashville (nod to our Southern roots!).

From there, I let the venue guide me. I chose glass-top tables, minimalist chairs, crisp white couches, and a color scheme of pewter, champagne, and deep red. I found great bridesmaid dresses at Anthropologie that felt cute and fresh and I chose my dress because it was light-weight and mod dramatic. I had my friend and designer goddess Meagan design a wedding logo for us that I used on the invites, signs, and even as a huge decal on some of the glass windows. We tried to incorporate lots of Southern charm with our wedding slogan “It’s true love y’all!”, lots of sweet tea, and good Southern food. My friend Rachel from Zync Music provided us with great instrumental versions of our favorite Indie bands like Phoenix. Born Ruffians, M. Ward, and others for the ceremony and our band, The Respectables, kept the dance floor jumping and even let my cousin join them with his trumpet! We found a great baker who was able to make a gluten-free wedding cake for us to cut (I have celiac’s) and special UNC tar heel cupcakes for our groom’s cake!

We started the wedding day off by putting the bridal party on a Nashville Party Trolley to take pictures at Union Station, the Frist, and the Shelby Street Bridge before formal pictures at Aerial. Then we snacked at Merchant’s before the ceremony. There were plenty of mishaps that day–our gift table briefly caught fire, almost no one took their favor CDs, a table shattered during the change over–but none of that mattered when I walked down the aisle with the sun lighting up the rooftop deck and married the love of my life. Our photographer Katie Murphy and videographers from DMSNC did an amazing job capturing the spirit of the day.


Wedding Photography: Kate Murphy Photography / Wedding Cinematography: DMSNC / Wedding Gown: San Patrick / Wedding Shoes: J. Crew / Wedding Venue: Aerial Nashville / Wedding Cake/Cupcakes: Crumb de la Crumb / Catering: A Dream Come True / Flowers: Miller’s Florist / Hair and Make-up: Debbie Dover of John David Agency / Bridesmaid Dresses: Anthropologie / Wedding Band: The Respectables / Logo: Meagan Bennett of Shy, But Interested / Ceremony Music: Rachel Jones of Zync Music / Transportation: F.A.D.D.S Party Bus

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