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Week Before the Wedding: Guinea Pig Programs

  • May 27, 2010 at 11:22 pm

It all started with these programs:

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I loved the simplicity, the rounded corners and the sewn detail.

When I first got obsessed with programs, I wasn’t quite sure what the design was going to look like (because Mr. GP and I couldn’t agree on it :D ). Once we got down to the wire of a few weeks before the wedding, we made up our minds quickly and set to work getting it done using elements from a bunch of our other wedding stuff.

For example: our cake had a ribbon around the base of each tier. Since I got 60 feet of that ribbon for $4 on eBay, and our baker only needed 20 feet, I had 40 feet left over… hmm… what to do with that? Use it on the programs!

I also decided I wanted to use the heart vector I’d bought from istockphoto (for the luminaries – more on those later) on the cover to keep things tied together, and we’d use the ribbon as a colorful backing for our names. So I got started cutting out 100 hearts. Fun times and sore fingers were ahead of me.

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(104 hearts, freehand cut out)

BM D helped me by cutting 8.5×11 yellow cardstock sheets in half, then folding them to make 4.25 x 5.5 program covers, and rounded the corners. Allie supervised and did quality control.

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(slave labor)

Then she came back the next weekend (did I mention I love BM D?) and helped me make even more progress! She cut ribbon just wide enough for the front of the program.

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(Offray Island Blue grosgrain ribbon)

Once those were cut, we drew a line across the programs so we could keep the ribbon straight and at a consistent height, and then I used a spray adhesive to glue ’em on! I decided on spray adhesive because when I tried hot glue, I ended up with this:

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(a bumpy mess)

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(spraying the ribbons on newspaper outside, gluing to the programs. It was sunny and 90 degrees out, and I wore all black. Great idea.)

I repeated the spray adhesive set up with the hearts, spraying and adhering three at a time to all the beribboned programs, aligning them with the two dots I had measured and marked for top and bottom of the heart so they would all be centered. Then I printed and cut a bajillion (OK it was only 100) little cards with our name and wedding date on them and glued those on top of the blue ribbon with even more spray adhesive.

Next came the hard part – writing the program! Who knew I would stress over it so much?! I spent forever and a day Googling ceremony programs to see what other people put in them – how much detail is too much? Whose names get mentioned? What do I call all these sections of the ceremony? So here’s the Guinea Pig attempt at a ceremony program, which seemed to work just fine at informing people what was happening when :)

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The only mistake I know was made is that we (okay, I) completely forgot to find a way to put Mr. Guinea Pig’s sisters in the program. :( They escorted my mom down the aisle and I only realized they weren’t in there after I had already printed all the programs and we’d started putting them together. Mr. GP and I were both upset we hadn’t thought of it before, but unfortunately it was too late to remedy the issue so we carried on – his sisters know we love them! I printed the pages at home on nice printer paper when my helper team (aka my family) arrived the week before the wedding, then we cut them out and assembled the programs!

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(Aunt M happily cutting out 100 program innards)

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(Mom Guinea Pig folding the insides to fit into the yellow cover)

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(Friend DB sewing it all together as a binding!)

I loved the way the stitching looked when you opened the program up to the center page (which of course was the page with all the names to blur… sigh):

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(with a matching yellow thread, leftover from making the ties)

And lastly, a more clear shot of the finished program!

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These weren’t exactly quick to make because there were so many separate elements that needed printing, cutting, and assembling, but I think they turned out pretty cute! The only problem I had with assembly was getting the name to stick to the ribbon. The white cardstock I printed on had a hard time catching hold on the grosgrain ribbon backing, so they tended to peel off. I attempted to solve this by stacking them under really heavy physics textbooks and cookbooks I had in the house, but I think if I’d had more time I would have found a better adhesive (rubber cement) than spray glue.

I definitely could not have done this without the help of my family (you’ll see that theme a lot in the upcoming last-minute project posts!) and I loved the way these turned out. :) Oh! And in terms of numbers: we had 134 guests attend the wedding, and we made 100 programs. At the end of the day we had about 10 programs left, so I’d say that was a pretty good number!

How much work did you put into your programs? Are you combining elements from other wedding projects to make something new?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Rings

  • May 26, 2010 at 11:15 pm

I’ve been hush hush about rings since my slight meltdown over the Dior ring. I mourned it and moved on with a little help from a small jeweler out of Philly, Bario-Neal.

They use recycled metals in their rings, have pretty affordable prices, and Ribs and I could get matching rings. Yay. I ended up with the Milla thin band in white gold and Ribs got the Milla round. Best of all, Bario-Neal shipped the rings in adorable glass bottles!

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The rings took about six weeks to arrive and we definitely cut it close (they came yesterday!), but the rings are gorgeous. Happily, both rings combined cost less than the Dior ring.

Which of your wedding disappointments had a silver lining?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Exorcising My Wedding Dress Demons

  • May 26, 2010 at 1:40 pm

Hey there, hive! I’ve got a story for you. I don’t really know how to address this issue, since it touches on some feelings that I’ve been harboring since oru wedding. I am slowly coming to terms with this a full NINE months AFTER my wedding. What is troubling me so? My dress.

Honestly, I liked my dress. I liked it a lot… but I can’t help but feel that I lost out on some bridal rite of passage by not buying a brand name/designer dress.

By the way, just in case you forgot, here’s my dress, which is also Mrs. Nachos’ dress. Great minds… :)

I usually don’t covet other people’s stuff, especially things on the pricier end of the spectrum, even more so when it comes to clothes. 9 times out of 10 when it comes to clothing shopping, I’ll roll out to H &M, Zara or maybe splurge at Club Monaco (See, not even close to designer!). I usually shock some people who inquire about certain things I wear and get a heap of furrowed brows when I tell them it’s from Old Navy. (Don’t sleep on Old Navy, folks!) Add all of this to the fact that during my planning process, I definitely didn’t get into “I must feel like a bride” or “It must be ’bridal’ or nothing” attitude, so why the heck do I still feel a sense of loss that I never had the pretty designer wedding dress from the fancy bridal store?

I had been thinking about my feelings of “loss” here and there, but the issue didn’t rear its ugly head until one morning when I was futzing around Twitter. I saw a tweet that profoundly disturbed me. The tweet was about Ms. Vera Wang’s decision to sell a line at David’s Bridal. Someone I happen to follow (who I no longer follow, and you’ll know why in a second) pretty much called the move “Barfworthy.” SAY WHAT?! HOLD UP! WAIT A MINUTE!

Look, we are all entitled to our opinions. I also know nothing can start an angry stampede of brides than the mention of the words “David’s Bridal”. But come on… barfworthy? I don’t judge people by what labels they wear in everyday life. I’m not about to start on their wedding day. Maybe this was my own insecurity whispering angry words into my ears, but I really don’t like when people turn their noses up at others for something as small as clothing choices. Perhaps I’m a bit harsh, but I would love to see a happy, ecstatic bride regardless of what the label in her dress says.

The tweeter and I exchanged some tweets. I told her to each her own regarding dress choices, and I disengaged and stopped following her. In the weeks since my little “incident” on Twitter has occurred, I think I’ve made some peace with my dress choice.

My dress did what it needed to do. It made me look great the one day I wanted it make me look and feel fabulous. It’s now sitting in my closet pressed and dry-cleaned waiting for me to get off my behind and do something with it (maybe publishing this post will spur me into action?). I loved my wedding day, but I have no desire to wear my dress again. I actually don’t think about my darling dress very much at all.

So in an effort to finally rid myself of my unnecessary insecurity and unfounded regret, I’ve decided to write a short letter to the Bridal Gown Industry to exorcise my dress demons and finally move on.

May 2010

Dear Bridal Gown Industry,

Unlike many women, I didn’t like my bridal gown shopping experience. It was at times disheartening, frustrating and could sometimes be a pretty big pain in the arse. There are some things I need to tell you, and I feel that by telling you publicly I will rid myself of feeling that I missed out on some quintessential bridal experience.

I would just like to say that my name is Mrs. Swan, and:

  1. I tried on over 60 dresses, and it took me forever to find a dress I liked. Even when I did, I questioned it when as I was buying it. There were no angels singing nor did the heavens part once I found my dress. I did not cry. I just kinda bought the dress. Please don’t tell me there is a “one” dress made for me. There probably could have been tons of others out there, if I was willing to spend more money.
  2. I know that you all strive to be creative and regale us with new designs each season, but how about something else besides strapless dresses? I promise that brides will like a little something different.
  3. Some of us want a dress that is reasonably priced. For some strange reason, Bridal Gown Industry, you have decided that reasonably priced somehow equals beading. Why does there need to be an odd direct correlation between more beading and lower price?
  4. Why don’t many stores let us take pictures? Would it really be that bad? If I want to copy the dress, I’ll just go to the designer’s website. It’s not that crucial. I would have still bought your dress if you let me take a picture to show my family and friends. Finally….
  5. I live in New York City, and I have never been to Kleinfeld’s.

Thank you, for letting me tell you those things, Bridal Gown Industry. I am now going to finish my newlywed days being at peace with my dress choice.

May I never have to shop for a wedding dress ever again,

Mrs. Swan


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Get with the…

  • May 26, 2010 at 1:09 pm

Like several bees before me, I was enchanted by accordion-fold programs. When I saw a packet of 11″x17″ paper on sale at Paper Presentation, I knew it was meant to be. I purchased some navy cardstock (both glittery and matte), pulled out the trusty Gocco, and got to work on the covers.

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For the innards, I fit 2 program onto an 11″x17″ sheet, with each innard 4 panels long. I included the ceremony program, bridal party members, and an e.e. cummings poem. I also included a quote incorporated in Mrs. Peep Toe’s and Mrs. Hot Cocoa’s programs, which will not be recognized by most of our guests but appreciated by a select few. Then, in the continued practice of recruiting family members (especially on holidays), Sis and Mom Hamster helped me cut, paste and attach ribbon, like so:

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Sis Hamster Folding the Program Innards

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Reinforcing the crease with the trusty bone folder

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Mom Hamster cutting the program innards

I believe it was at this point that she said “Put the camera down and get to work, child.” But for blogging posterity, I soldiered on.

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The folded innards

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Sis Hamster gluing the covers on

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The inside of a completed program

To hold the programs, Mom Hamster found a basket as well as – *get this* – a gorgeous piece of velvet left from when her mom, my grandmother, sewed the bridesmaids dresses for my mom and dad’s wedding. How’s that for something old and borrowed?

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The finished product

Are you having ceremony programs? What will they look like?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Board #482: Magnolia & Graphite

  • May 26, 2010 at 11:30 am

One of the things I miss about living in Mississippi is the incredible magnolia trees. The magnolia trees that grow in other places I’ve lived just don’t seem to get quite as many blossoms, but I guess that’s why Mississippi is called the Magnolia State. They’re such dramatic flowers, and they just smell so good! Kari Herer’s beautiful magnolia photo and pencil illustration inspired today’s simple wedding board, with shades of white and green and gray. I imagine chalkboards, zinc tags, and pencil drawings, accented with magnolia flowers, of course – pulled together, I think they create a look that’s both vintage-inspired and totally fresh.

Mood: fresh, timeless
Palette: graphite gray, magnolia white, leafy green

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Top row from left: magnolia with pencil illustration by Kari Herer, vintage silver tray with drinking glasses via Design Shimmer, cake with sugar magnolia blossom by April Reed Cake Design
Row 2: photo of gray suits and ties by Jose Villa
Row 3: framed chalkboard from Blue Bell Bazaar, letterpress thank you card by Missive via Oh So Beautiful Paper, magnolia bouquet by PoHo

This article was originally posted onSnippet & Ink.

DIY Tears of Joy Tissues

  • May 25, 2010 at 1:05 pm

I have a fascination with Tears of Joy tissues, so I’m going to show you how I made my own.

First, let’s talk about the materials that I used…

Small glassine envelopes: glassine is a very thin and translucent type of paper which is similar to vellum, except glassine is water resistant (as well as air and grease resistant). If you have bought postage stamps from the post office before, that is what they put your stamps in.

They are relatively cheap and can be purchased from a paper store. I purchased my glassine envelopes from eBay in the #3 size, which measures 4¼” x 2½”.

Then I bought some personalized rectangle labels from beaucoup.com.

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The kind that I bought is called Summer Garden and measures 2½” x 1¼”. I ordered my labels in pale pink.

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My package from beaucoup arrived quickly. Hmm… I wonder what is inside?

Can you guess?

My labels, of course!!

I was pleased with how they turned out.

Equipped with some coupons, I went to Jo-Ann’s and scored some pretty pink & green ribbon.

I just used regular ol’ pocket Kleenex. They fit in the envelopes perfectly.

I figured that 2 sheets of tissue per envelope was enough to wipe away some happy tears. :)

Bridesmaid N happened to be in town one weekend so I immediately put her to work stuffing the envelopes. :) We were being neat freaks and taking our time so it took a lot longer than it should have, but it’s nice to have some help because it cuts the workload in half. After Bridesmaid N left, I finished up the envelopes with the labels and ribbon. Here are the six easy steps:

1) Cut the ribbon into 7″ strips and set them aside.

2) Turn the stuffed envelope over and stick a label to the flap.

3) Flip it back over and affix a ribbon to one end of the label.

4) Close the flap and press down the right side of the label while leaving the left side of the label up.

5) Pull the ribbon around the back of the envelope and bring it around to the left side of the raised label.

6) Tuck it under the label and press down. Voila! All done.

This is what the other side of the finished tissue packets look like.

And there you have it. Simple and neat.

If you decide to make your own, please show me! I would love to see how great yours turn out.


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Board #481: Nude & Gray

  • May 25, 2010 at 11:30 am

I love neutrals. Just about everything in my home, or that I wear, is either white or beige or gray. Not particularly bold or exciting, but I think done well, neutrals can be anything you want them to be, whether it’s cozy, stark, romantic or modern. All of that is just an extended way of introducing today’s inspiration board, with its palette of modern neutrals. Shades of peachy nude and cement gray are at once modern and romantic, and I think it’s an utterly sophisticated look. If you wanted to introduce a pop of color, I could see bringing in shots of bright orange or hot pink, or perhaps a deep plum purple.

Mood: softly modern
Palette: nude in shades of peach and cream, warm gray

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Top row from left: photo with gray peep toe heels by Alison Conklin via The Bride’s Cafe,
Row 2: French net veil with crystals by Jennifer Behr, stationery by Martha Stewart for Crane & Co.
Row 3: Brooklyn Bridge via Always a Bridesmaid, pearl necklace with stationery by Alice Gabb, pink tulle favors from Martha Stewart Weddings

This article was originally posted onSnippet & Ink.

Board #480: Poppy and Field

  • May 24, 2010 at 9:30 pm

After a month-long hiatus, inspiration boards are back! Thanks to all of you for being so patient and for stopping by to check in with Snippet & Ink, even when posting has been a bit irregular. I hope this summery orange poppy wedding board brightens your Monday…

Mood: soft and bright, summer light
Palette: summer field green, orange poppy, whipped cream

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Top row from left: poppy fields via Little Brown Pen, orange silkscreen stationery by Igloo Letterpress via Oh So Beautiful Paper, pale green dress via Dress Design Decor
Row 2: miniature cakes from Blah Blah Blahg, sweet tea with monogram napkin and butterfly paper lanterns both from Martha Stewart Weddings, vine-motif save-the-date by Austin Press
Row 3: cake topper by Dolci Odille, photo of wreaths with orange ribbon by Duston Todd, photo of hummingbird seating cards by Lisa Lefkowitz, white garden chairs from Wedding Style Guide
Row 4: photo of kraft paper favor bags with orange ribbon by Jagger Photography, vintage getaway car via Charleston Weddings, photo of romantic wedding dress by Thayer Allyson Gowdy

This article was originally posted onSnippet & Ink.

Man Flowers

  • May 23, 2010 at 10:00 pm

I have a certain fear.

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All of the flowers at the ceremony and reception are going to be roses and peonies. So while for the most part that means a ton of fluffy goodness, it can also be concerning. For evidence, see above.

My beef with rose bouts is this: they remind me of high school dances, where every single date of mine had the same tight rosebud bout. I also don’t love how far it sits away from the lapel. I’d like to avoid this.

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Those aren’t roses, they’re dahlias, but they sure are awesome. Note how the flowers lay flat across the lapel and while they’re large, they’re a quirky large, not “I’m a giant bud” large.

Another convincing argument:

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So I think at this point, a rose is not the ideal flower bout for us. But peonies are a little delicate and I assume they would not hold up as a bout either. Do you have any last minute suggestions for a flower available in June that’d be flat and big and lovely?


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.

Invitations: Envelopes

  • May 22, 2010 at 9:00 pm

Many moons ago it seems, I showed you my save the dates and I mentioned I would be working with the same Etsy seller, Twin Ravens Press, on the invitation suite. I thought you might enjoy this little peek at the envelopes and the letterpress process! (All photos by Kristin and sent to me)

The paper for my envelope liners, before


This paper is natural lotka paper with embedded flower petals.

The envelope liner in the die-cutter machine

The liners after being cut

The envelopes fully lined

The letterpress

The printing plate for our return address with the blue ink on it

Our envelopes going to meet the printing plate

Our envelopes coming off the printing plate

And the finished envelope!

I’m so happy that Kristin sent me these pictures, and I could share a tiny sneak peek of what’s to come with you!


This article was originally posted onWeddingbee.